I didn’t right my idea yesterday. Got no time. I prefer spending my day and time with him. Yes .. So Happy. Yes, So in love. :] 

The Idea am talking about, is the continuation in my older post, which is, the one that am soo darn MAD. the norm actually is bothering me for Quite sometime and the nerve that even before I go to sleep I think about it. My Philo Subject had a big effect in my whole vacation. It’s the Criticism of the people around us. Which is, the day wont pass without it. that fuckin’ SUCKS. 

I regret that my idea has been vanished. >.< it was neglected because of sime issue that happened yesterday. >.< and that really sucks.

Also, the Panatang Makabayan, :[ I really can’t remember the notion that my mind isssss now Spinning around just to recall it :[

ow em.

— J

Every society has expectations about how its members should and should not behave. A norm is a guideline or an expectation for behavior. Each society makes up its own rules for behavior and decides when those rules have been violated and what to do about it. Norms change constantly.

— here’s a thing , standard norms is Fucking killing mey !!!

_/ ano nga ba ang basehan ?! ano nga ba ang maganda at hindi magandang naidudulot ng NORM ?! let as discuss it.

• kapag nag boyfriend ka ng negro, hindi na agad siya yung taong para sayo?
• kapag itawis at ilokano siya, hindi na agad PWEDE?!
• kapag mahirap at walang sinabi yung pamilya niya, hindi na pwede?

When you’re a PLUS size woman, people like to say “Yeah, she’s cute in the face”, as if being full figured is such a disgrace. Honey, I’m cute in the face, and I’m thicker in the waist. I look good whether I’m in cotton, leather, or lace. I’m beautiful, vibrant and above all, smart! There’s more to me than my weight, I also have a heart. Yes my clothes may be a bigger size, that just means you have access to a bigger prize. We all are not self-conscious about our weight, and we never have a problem getting a date. WAITING ON MY GOD SENT, SO DON’T HATE. So don’t think your small frame gives you more pull, I’m a hot, sexy, curvy woman with a figure that’s full! ♥

Listen to what we are saying. Usually we are just venting and need some sort of release. You are the one we need to be there for us. To listen and tell us what you think of the situation. It shows us you care and that you are concerned about the things that concern us. We want to share everything with you but we also need you to communicate your feelings, needs, wants, hopes, dreams, problems. Talking and sharing is one of the most important things in a relationship for a woman.

She is the way she is and you have to lover her for that, Even the littlest things you say may really hurt her even when she may not show it because every girl has some insecurity. Let her know she is beautiful and compliment her because it never hurts to compliment her you know? Let her know you care because every girl is perfect in their own special way. Love her for her flaws because that’s what makes her unique, Don’t try to change her into somebody she is not, Just let her be who she is and accept her for that.

You run after her and pour your heart out on the pavement. You have to tell her all the reasons you love her, and you gotta mean every word of it. You better kiss her like you’ve never kissed her before and hold her in your arms like you’re protecting the world, because she is your world. Fight for her. Don’t let her go. Because once she walks out on you, there will be nothing more you can do. And let me tell you boy, you will regret it.

We both know that we want to be with each other, but we can’t. We can’t. We both love each other, but we can’t be together. We are not allowed to be together. We talk and we say sweet things with each other as if we are lovers. We are lovers, but there is no commitment that we only love one another and no one else. You love me, but you have the right to be with someone. Someone else can have you. This drowns me in sorrow more than anything.

One day you will realize that I really loved you. And you will realize that you won’t find anybody else who will love you the way I loved you. And I know, you won’t admit it now, but you will realize that. But I guess the day you realize that, it would be the day when I’m gonna be far away from this.

I will get over you, and maybe I won’t forget you, but I will get over you one day. And when you realize how much I loved you, maybe you won’t come after me, actually I know that you won’t because you are way too much proud, but you will know that you let the girl who really loved you go.

And she loved you for who you are, nothing more and nothing less.